About me πŸ‘©πŸ»β€πŸŽ“

Hi, I am Iris (she/her). I am Chinese in my early 30sβ€”This is the age when I feel that I am finally walking towards maturity. I am currently a postdoctoral scholar in the US. I enjoy and have a strong passion for self exploring. I am constantly (maybe sometimes unconsciously) seeking for similar souls.

I just started my journey practicing polyamory. I like the idea of nonhierarchical polyamory. I met my nesting partner, who is also my legal husband, during graduate school when we both were pursuing our PhD degrees. My other partner and I initially met online when we were doing high-end contents in Final Fantasy XIV.

This is my blog spaceβ€”my paradise where I can be who I am, and I am trying to find out more about myself. I write about my personal experience, my feelings, and my thoughts in both English and Chinese. To make this space sacred, β€œtherapeutic” and free, I intentionally hide my personal identification. I hope that my identity can be kept in private. If you like me or like my posts, I am happy to make friends online and I would appreciate if you do not try to find out who I am in real life.


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